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Time Management

Huff.. I'm exhausted.

I passed the day with a myriad of activities. It may sound like I'm too much, but I'm seriously tired.

I'm even writing this post has been very sleepy. Yet, I was forced to keep posting even if only briefly.

Hectic schedule and a lot of tasks. How can I finish it all on time?

I'm interested to share how to manage the time from my experiences. Honestly, it's not a perfect way, but maybe, it can inspire you. Yeah, whatever it's used by, it will be usefull, hope so. :D

Just talk.. something that I really need was a diary. A diary which contains schedules and 'to do list' or it's usual called by organizer or time planner. It's very important to make a list of the tasks I needed to accomplish. You can just rely on your memory, but believe me, it can help you much by using a diary. A diary will be as your assistent. It will remind you to what you must do. Then, assign realistic priorities to each tasks.

For example:

a. Priority 1: due today or tomorrow

b. Priority 2: due in a week

After that, I did what is in list step by step. Work everytime if desired. It's oke on small portions everyday.  It also meant, no matter I took a break so that it could refresh myself to refocus with the tasks. Sometimes, I gave reward for the task was finished.

Finally, I would complete all my tasks. For sure, I was so happy.

Yeah, just as simple as it...

Let's try...

:)

Bored

Hello guys who keep reading on my blog.

Honestly, I have no idea to post something this time. Well, it'll be randomly speaking, maybe. Still, it's no problem, isn't it? Like I said that I will post everything I wanna share to you.

Hmm... Because I just got bored, it's better if I post about boredom. I believe that you all had ever felt bored, right? Sometimes, we were too tired to do the same activities day by day. We felt that everything we did was nothing therefore we were lazy to do something. Or you even lost spirit. Whatever it's describe, you got bored obviously.  I think, it's natural thing to happen.Yet, don't let it make you do nothing all day. Get up, dude! There are a lot things you can do still.

Oke, I just wanna share what I did. Go through the below steps, before starting your daily activities.

1. Get closer to God
It's really the first key to keep cheer of your life. I believe, by getting closer to Him, you will feel comfort always. Just make Him as your best friend whom you share everything to Him. Remember, He is The Best Listener. You won't feel lonely eventhought you are alone. He knows everything what you did not even know.
How can I be so sure? Because, it happened to me. When I was away from Him, I feel lost something. I could do everything, but I could get the meaning of.
So, how to get it? Just by prayer, reading qur'an, dzikir, and so forth.

2. Take a rest
You can go to the place which can give care your body, such as salon, or reflexology. Your body is not a machine. It can be tired. When your body is tired, your mind was so unpalatable therefore you lost spirit. Take a rest so that it can work optimally and your mind will be refresh. Or maybe, by simple way, sleep. It's never mind if you spent a day by sleep, but it must provide benefits to you. Yeah, deep sleep is important so that you wake up with more spirit to do your activities.

3. Do what you enjoy it
Know in advance what your hobbies. If you love reading a novel, just spend your time to read a novel. Leave your college book first. Or, if you like watching movie, take a time to watch a movie. If you like cooking, just cook. And whatever you do can make you happy.


Is this everything?
Of course not. There a lot things you can do still. It's only my way. It can't be covered just by doing my own way since you have your own way too.

Love

Hello guys. I just found that picture. It makes me interested in posting it. You often hear the word of love, don’t you? Can you describe what love is?

Love is a central part of most of our lives. It is certainly needed by all people. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs put it on fifth. It develops when someone needs are fulfilled by another person. In its simplest form, such as, “I have important needs. You fulfill those needs, therefore, I love you.” Each person defines love according to his or her bakground and experiences. One person may describe love is strong feeling that makes someone feel comfort. Another may describe is as a biological attraction. Yet, there is someone even says that’s just a delusion. Yeah, whatever people define it, there are many different definitions of love. When someone talks about love, you need to know what kind of love his/her mean. The point of view reflected here is love is not a single concept, but has different dimension. Therefore, love is not only by words, but also by actions.

So, what is love that you can describe? Let’s describe it according to your memorable experiences about loving someone! :D

Refrence: DeGenova, M. K. (2008). Intimate Relationships, Marriages & Families. United States: McGraw Hill.

A Hearty Welcome

Welcome guys, bloglovers. Nice to be here sharing everything I can do and you love too, hopefully. Long time, yeah it has been so long time I wanted to start blogging, but it’s just now I’m able to start writing something. Never too late to start something good, right? So, do you. Just do everything good right now, guys!

Especially thanks to my father who always motivates me to write. He ever said that by writing we will give everthing to others. I do thought its absolutely right. Also thanks to my mother and brother who always support me and make me keep going on it. Then, for my best, Faiza Syakura thank you, who suggests me to make this blog that I hope someday my writing will be usefull and it’ll be booked. Yeah, it’s one of my biggest  dream and it’ll be granted, I believe. Allah always listens my prays.

Actually, I’m still learning to build this blog. I’ll organized it step by step. I’m so grateful if you give comments or opinions on my posts. It’ll be different kind of excitement when I log in and see notification that someone sent me a comment. Surely, I’ll reply it happily.

Anyway, now I’m a student of psychology. Like you know, I learn about human, yes, us. I want what I learned can be applied in daily life. I also hope I can help people to solve their problem. I feel welcomed to all people who wants to ask me something. So, feel free to share, maybe about your problem of life, love, and everything you want. Whenever you like to talk, you could follow me on my twitter, @nadiarindila. I’d be happy to do that.

Thank you much guys. Keep reading and stay on this blog! :D